What are embarrassment dreams about?

Alrite guys and girls well basically past 2 nights I've had pretty much the same dream

The first night it was scary there was an old lady just watching me ngl I can't really remember much of it I woke up and felt a bit freaked out

This morning had a second dream about the same old lady apart from this time it was different.. tbh memories kinda vague now but basically she was following me giving me bad vibes so I woke up.. so I thought (still dreaming) I got out of bed like usual went down stairs to get me and the misses a glass of water like usual but when I turn around the kitchen light was off and the hallway went dark.. next thing I remember I was outside are front door but surrounded buy glass windows and I was smoking a cigarette I couldn't see threw the windows it was dark outside so only seen my reflection.. well as I was smoking my cig I dropped it I bent down to pick it up and as I looked up the old lady was staring me point blank in the face I felt uneasy and quite fucking terrified tbh she felt like a demon then I woke up for real crying my eyes out lol embarrassing asf

I'm not a religious guy or any of that shit but I cant get this old lady out of my head when I thought I woke up I really thought I was awake it was so vivid

Anyone give me an explanation and no it wasnt sleep paralysis I suffer with that also but this was different I wasn't stuck or feeling suffocated I was walking around like normal

First time poster dont normally do this lol just feel uneasy

Any advice would be nice thank you

Let me just preface this by saying that I feel really disgusted at myself for having this dream. I am a straight guy and I have a girlfriend but right now things are long distance because she had to leave the state temporarily for family matters. I will admit I'm very lonely because we moved in together at the end of 2019 after having an online relationship for almost a whole year prior. And I'll admit I'm lonely because after moving out of my narc mom's house everyone sided with her over me and stopped talking to me and shamed me for moving out. And so I'm completely alone in this town but I don't cheat.

Anyway I was walking around on a cloudy day when this cool fellow goth dude with short, spiky black hair and blue-green eyes started talking to me. We went out to the clearing behind my apartment complex to smoke cigarettes and chat. And he just randomly kissed me without warning. And then I woke up. Wtf does this mean?

Before I begin I want to say that this colleague is 14 years older than me, and I never saw her in a sexual way. I sort of playfully flirt since we’re the only single people at work.

So I had this dream I’m at a tropical resort. I’m relaxing in a secluded spot in a stone bath. The water is nearly full to the brim, there’s fern trees, bamboo shoots around the area making it more secluded. The bath seems to be rather milky coloured with white and pink hibiscus flowers floating in it. And a rock statue of an owl watching over the secluded bath.

And then my colleague turns up and disrobes beside the bathtub. She gives me a brief smile as she drops the bathrobe. I see her full curvy figure, a nice thick bush, and a large chest with some sagging . She joins me in the bath, there is like a large banana leaf as like a towel mat... and I’m absolutely aroused by the sight of her.

As she gets in I feel her pubic mound brush briefly against my erect penis. She stares at me with a smirk as she bathes and massages her chest, and says: “you are safe now.”

She’s plays and massages my penis which feels like it’s growing and I noticed as she has gotten into the milky bath her breast look more firm and bigger. There is a strong aroma of honey and coconut in the air too.

My colleague then gives me the most amazing blowjob to which I cum in her mouth and on her face.

So this dream happened a few weeks ago. But I’m embarrassed about it, and it’s only the last week or so she is now flirting with me too! And when she does I can’t get that dream out of my minds eye.

Is there more to this? Work has been a bit of a roller coaster lately but I’m just worked up over how vivid it was and the fact she is now flirting a bit with me.

I might delete this because I can't be bothered creating an alt, but I have to share this somewhere since I just had this dream.
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Dreamstart-

I was playing videogames (LAN) with some friends. An attractive girl there complimented me for my music choices (don't know the girl) and suddenly out of the blue, I shit myself.

I run into the restroom to clean up, shitting some more, then when't back outside. Immedietly after I get outside, I again start shitting myself.

The dream gets hazy but I remember walking around, with shit in my pants, going up to my father and asking for help. He almost vomited and couldn't stand near me and said something like "Hell no I am not giving you a lift with this smell". I sort of didn't argue with that and just kept running, still shitting my pants.

Then I am in a fancy hotel, and I am knocking on someones door to beg them to use their bathroom. Once I am stepping inside, they notice the smell and I keep saying "Somethings fkt up with my stomach". I get to the bathroom, and its like a glass cage in the corner of the main room, and there where people having a party.

So I am in that glass cage, which has a shower and a toilet, standing under the shower, cleaning, pooping, scooping poop into the toilet. And outside, in the apartment in the main room, where people having a small "party". At first they where disgusted, but shortly after, and for a while they were laughing. I didn't feel ashamed, just frustrated, because I had no control over this. But I was angry.

So angry that at one point, the people in the party got an elderly couple from outside to see what was going on. The old lady goes all the way to the class cage, opens it, all while mockingly laughing. But she steps inside. So in my rage, without thinking I take a scoop of shit from the toilet (which for clooged to the brim with shit) and covered her whole face in it. She was laughing the same the whole time.

Then I wake up.

Can someone help me decypher this? Is this just a random weed dream or is my head telling me something?

Background: I live in Iran; reputation and shame strongly influence this culture. I’m 25 yo, female. I always date younger guys (21-22). Recently, after about 8 months of not dating, I started dating another 22-year-old. Also, I have social anxiety.

What I remember from the dream:

In the first act, there’s a building. Its top floor is a luxury hotel; it has an air of lust to it and it seems to be host to frequent sex parties. I see an Indian middle-aged women, having sex with two young guys.

I don’t remember the second act. I know it involves my family (including my sister and brother) and it seems like something has happened that has endangered the reputation of the family and we are trying to fix it.

In the third act, a magical battle is going on. Our side has acquired something from the other side; an eye, that when worn, will make the wearer invisible, and they can do whatever they want. There is a black man on our side that is given the responsibility of using the eye. He goes around dealing with some enemies, killing them or knocking them down. My brother is also helping in the battle. The scene is in my grandparents (mother’s side) house. Meanwhile, I’m doing something, maybe hiding something in the hotel. (I don’t remember)

However, when we think we have won, Mad Eye Moody from harry potter appears. And we realize The Eye hasn’t been working, and whatever the black guy has done have had no effect. All enemies are still alive, and also, they’ve seen everything.

Mad eye moody chases the black guy. At this point, his point of view becomes mine. He feels weak and defeated. Then, when mad eye moody is near, the black guy decides to destroy the eye. He cuts into it with a scissor. Inside the eye, it’s black and made of foam.

The scene cuts to the middle-aged Indian woman. She is in a red-purple lively casino or club, and she is picking up two young men.

I would appreciate your interpretation!