What are helping dreams about?
Help is when you receive something of benefit from someone or something else. This symbol is identified by words like encourage, assist, advise, etc.
Helping in dreams is a frequent dream symbol, occuring in about 16% of dreams. That's about 1 out of every 6 dreams.
What are the major highlights of helping dreams?
Helping is a very interconnected dream symbol. Having helping in a dream substantially changes the nature of the dream.
Helping dreams are friendly
Dreams of helping have greater increase of friendly interactions within the dream than most other dream symbols. While not all dreams of helping will be friendly and they can also contain aggressive interactions, dreams of helping are more likely to have friendly interactions than most other dream symbols. Other symbols that are like this include Jamaica, crowds, jobs, feelings, scars, actors, vision, tea, bobcats, and edges.
What symbols more present in dreams of helping?
Helping dreams are notable because they have substantially more trying to scream, paramedic, characters, Laos, needing help, saving, helplessness, happiness, Venezuela, healing, psychologists, escaping, thanking, Morocco, rescuing, ignoring, safety, therapists, employees, Bolivia, movement, panic, psyches, nurses, thieves, general movement, trapping, abusing, baggage, animuses, jury members, hostages, communicating, raping, pushing, overdoses, unemployment, disease, emotions, undressing, praying, clean, serial killers, South Africa, other verbs, obeying, police, weakness, trying, Serbia, intrigued, janitors, protecting, guiding, things, dissecting, snack, locks, spirits, and revenge than 95% of other dream symbols.
What symbols less present in dreams of helping?
Helping dreams are notable because they have substantially less Donald Trump, Russia, spaceships, lucid dreams, rockets, helping, verbs, friendly interactions, precognitive dreams, black and white, recurring dreams, nuclear bombs, heaven, genitals, missiles, elephants, games, the sky, Ireland, specific people, flying, objects in space, hurricanes, penises, the galaxy, natural places, tornados, octopus, seeing a dead relative, peeing, abscesses, Fiji, Cameroon, Estonia, Ethiopia, Frodo, Guatemala, ovaries, Ecuador, emaciation, calluses, Algeria, playing, frogs, grenades, crushes, birds, earthquakes, the night, clouds, social media, tiktok, seeing a dead friend, disasters, dream within a dream, youtube, and sexuals acts than 95% of other dream symbols.
How does the dream symbol of helping affect the different aspects of a dream?
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Who is in helping dreams?
Overall, dreams with helping are aren't really related to characters in dreams. Specifically, dreams of helping are more related to family and more related to romantic partners than dreams in general. They are less related to fantastic beings.
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What are the emotions in helping dreams?
Overall, dreams with helping are more related to emotions in dreams. Specifically, dreams of helping are much more related to happiness, more related to grief and sorrow, and more related to confusion than dreams in general. They are less related to fun.
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Who is in helping dreams?
Overall, dreams with helping are less related to places in dreams. Specifically, dreams of helping are less related to human places, less related to natural places, and less related to magical places.
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What happens in helping dreams?
Overall, dreams with helping are aren't really related to events in dreams. Specifically, dreams of helping are much more related to friendly interactions than dreams in general. They are less related to disasters.
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How do helping in dreams related to other dream phenomenon?
Overall, dreams with helping are aren't really related to dream events in dreams. Specifically, dreams of helping are more related to recurring dreams, more related to recurring nightmares, and more related to sleep paralysis than dreams in general.
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How can you make sense of helping in dreams?
Helping dreams are frequent. Among other things helping dreams are very postively interconnected and friendly.
Do you think this is true for your dream of helping? How might your dream of helping be different?
All dreams have meaning
You can gain insight from thinking about any dream, no matter how strange. Only you, as the dreamer, have final say on what your dream may or may not mean. Each dream is unique.
Look for the differences
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Return to the feelings
Our emotions in dreams can help us understand its meaning. Pay attention to how you felt in the dream. Pay attention to how you feel about helping in dreams. See how you feel about helping now, in your waking life.
Examples of dreams of helping
Read some real dream reports of helping dreams.. These real life dream reports come from the moderated dream sharing communities of Reddit including r/Dreams, r/Nightmares, r/DreamInterpretation, or r/thisdreamihad. Please note that some of these may contain graphic, sexual, or violent images and text. Use the source link for each dream to view and join the discussion of each one.
Should I act on this dream? Please help.
So this morning I had this dream that;
I was contacted by a girl I went to high school with.
However, we weren't friends didn't have the same friends and have never seen her since school. Apart from friending on Facebook but everyone does that.
She contacts me to help with a young girl that had a mild disability in my dream but was playing basketball but was struggling with something. it was not clear in dream what about. But thought I could help.
What was clear is that when I turned to the girl from high school, who is now a grown women as in my age 32. Give or take. She looked crazy clear like real life clear, I look her up when awake and all her features were exactly as she is now as an adult not the teenager.
So firstly, I'm impressed and freaked how accurate my dream was.
I've honestly never looked her up over the years I didn't know anything about her until just glancing at Facebook today.
Secondly, it felt like she was asking for help with something was the crux off the dream.
The little girl and the basketball thing I think is me. As I've worked with young people of all ages over the years and am currently looking to start coaching basketball or ice hockey for juniors.
So my question. Do I contact this girl, who is married and who I have no reason except my dream said she wanted my help.....?
Ps.Yeah I also know how weird it would look from her point of view.
So this morning I had this dream that;
I was contacted by a girl I went to high school with.
However, we weren't friends didn't have the same friends and have...
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Had a crush on a girl 32 year ago. Haven't thought about her 32 years. Last night, I had a dream. She was pushing a stroller to a park and complaining to other moms that I didn't help out with...
I had a crush on a girl 32 year ago. I never told her that I had a crush on her.
I haven't thought about her 32 years.
Last night, I had a dream. She was pushing a stroller to a park and complaining to other moms that I didn't help out with changing diapers. I was running around with other people playing football, but I still heard what she said.
Against my better judgement, I looked her up online this morning.
I was beyond shocked and sat in front of my computer motionless for almost half an hour or longer. I felt no air in my lungs and it was as if my body forgot how to breathe...
I found out that she had just passed away 11 days ago. There was an obituary from her family as well. Not really sure why, but I called her phone number from 32 years ago. The number was her parent's house from back then. A man picked up. It turned out to be her brother. He and his family now lives in that house. I told him who I was and he remembered me.
As I started telling him about my dream from last night, he became very quiet and said nothing for several minutes. I thought line had gone dead, but it turned out that he was crying. What he said next shocked me to my core... He said "did you know that she also had a major crush on you back then?" and "a couple weeks before she died, she said she was still in love with you and she really wanted to see you one last time, but we didn't know how to get in contact with you"....
I feel all the energy drained out of me. My entire body feels like it was injected with pure sadness that no words could describe.
I had a crush on a girl 32 year ago. I never told her that I had a crush on her.
I haven't thought about her 32 years.
Last night, I had a dream. She was...
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I Had a Nightmare That Has Messed Me Up for Days Now. I Think I Went to a Multiversal Death Hub.
Hello all!
About 2 weeks ago I had a very existential lucid nightmare that I can’t get out of my head. It’s to the point where it has been effecting my waking life. I need some outside help making sense of what it could mean.
For context, I have existential issues involving what my purpose in life is or even if I am supposed to exist at all.
So it began in a sort of black void with a warm colored aurora in the sky. Directly in front of me there is a hooded man with his left eye missing that looks like an older grizzled version of me. Same look, voice, eye color, scar on our upper lip, everything. He is looking into a circular stone fountain looking thing with a bonfire positioned on a raised platform in the middle.
Around him in every direction as far as I could see were hundreds of thousands of gravestones. All of them had a vague “endings” written on them. (For example, “The Swiss Ending”, “The Atomic Ending”, “The Fantastical Ending”, etc.) Some were filled in while most had empty holes in front of them.
I approached the man in the middle and politely asked who he is and where I was. He simply responded with this,
“You know where we are, this is where we all go to die. Now find your grave, I’ll help you out when you get there.”
I responded with,
“My apologies, pal, I’m not dead yet. Who did you say you were again?”
“Does it matter? We’re all the same here anyway.”
That is when it occurred to me. All these graves were for different versions of me. From different realities or universes I don’t know. I was fairly certain I wasn’t dead and this was all just a bad dream so I decided to explore and possibly see which gravestone in this labyrinthine graveyard was mine.
As I walked, I started to feel a tug from my chest, like my heart was being pulled in a certain direction. I followed the pull for what seemed like ages. Eventually the graves just stopped except for this one gravestone sitting alone just outside of where the rest of them lay. As I approached my soul felt like it was it was sitting next to a cozy fireplace, so I had the feeling that this grave was mine.
I eventually got close enough to read it had it not been for the dust and debris that covered it. It looked old and dilapidated yet it still had an open plot in front of it. I brushed off the dirt covering the gravestone and what I read chilled me to my soul.
“The Bad Ending”
The old man came from beside me.
“What an unfortunate soul this one. Feel real bad for him, you know?”
“I think that’s me.”
“What? No, it couldn’t, he’s not-“
He looked at me, his face grew grim.
“Oh shit, you’re not supposed to be here yet!”
He then grabbed my face and I felt my brain shock like it had just been struck by Thor himself.
Then I woke up. Sweating, crying, and white-knuckled. It’s absolutely fucked with my mind ever since.
Hello all!
About 2 weeks ago I had a very existential lucid nightmare that I can’t get out of my head. It’s to the point where it has been effecting my waking...
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I think I may die soon.
I will not tell the entirety of the dream. because most of it had no correlation, I know that.
It was just tests and reality checks, telling me to get my shit together since I'm a grown ass man who can control his ownself.
Now, I will mention an irl fact, I have a problem. I am parasitic. Whether you believe it or don't believe it, it matters little to me.
I can feel pains in my heart, things entering and moving around in my heart. It feels as if things are there, tugging and just moving. A stinging, sometimes.
Thats just to provide context.
Now onto the part of the dream I haven't been able to clearly decipher.
A book opened, and there was a kind of children's fairytale theme to it. There was a picture of a flat 2D grassfield, with the Sun in the sky and grass on the ground. On the ground laid a heart, my heart, I knew that right away. Perfect looking, rhythmically beating soundly.
Then, the Sun fell and the Moon rose. The once perfect heart that laid there was now black and battered. There were holes in it, and a green acidic looking ooze flooding from out of it. It's rhythm was all off, beating faster than its supposed to.
And then, The Sun rose again, and all was normal.
Until it fell again, then the black heart appeared once again.
There were 5 days of light, and 4 nights. The fifth day, a black bird flew in and grabbed my heart by it's beak and descended into the earth, dropping my heart into a lake of fire.
I woke up shortly after, and my heart was beating faster than usual. The Sun hadn't rose yet, but it was still morning.
One detail I forgot to mention, was that the word AVACADO was on The Sun on the fifth day before the bird grabbed my heart. I dont eat, or talk about Avacadoes.
Even writing this now, at night, I can feel my heart aching, beating irrhythmically, feeling ill.
A day passed and at night I prayed and asked what that dream was meant to show me.
I went through a test of some sort, overcoming something I would usually succumb to, and everything went pitch black.
In white letters, the message appeared.
"Learn to read, Troubled One.
Learn to read, quickly.
Learn to read."
Another day has passed, and it is now night.
I don't know what I wanted coming here. Maybe I just wanted to tell someone, get over my loneliness or ask for help. I'm scared but I feel like I shouldn't be.
Oh, something to note, I talk to the Sun for comfort. I call it Mr.Sun, and ask it to carry my prayers and messages to the Lord and Jesus. It's just something I do. I dont know if that carries any meaning, but yeah.
I will not tell the entirety of the dream. because most of it had no correlation, I know that.
It was just tests and reality checks, telling me to get my shit...
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