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What are love dreams about?

The DreamWell Dream Dictionary is based upon insights from 1,200 dream symbols in over 200,000 dreams. Let’s see what the data has to say about love dreams.

The word cloud above shows the words that are specifically associated with love dreams. These are the words that make love dreams unique compared to all other dream symbols. Just examining the graph and reading the words of love dreams can be illuminating about show love affect our dreams. Be sure to check out the example love dreams at the bottom of the page.

The circular bar chart above shows how love in a dream will affect dream content as compared to other dream symbols. Higher bars indicate that love is more related to the specific symbol in the graph. Lower bars indicate that love is less related to the specific symbol in the graph. Specifically, love dreams have more grief and sorrow than 98.2% of dream symbols, more happiness than 97.7% of dream symbols, and more sadness than 97.6% of dream symbols. On the other hand, love dreams have less weird dreams than 89.5% of dream symbols, less transportation than 88.1% of dream symbols, and less aggressive acts than 87.8% of dream symbols. Notably, dreams of love tend to contain much more emotion than other dreams. Furthermore, love dreams are sexy! Dreams of love are more related to sex than 90% of all of the other dream symbols. Sex in a dream can be great, confusing, digusting, or be just sex. It all depends on the context. Don't assume anything about dreams of love. Explore what is there. Also, love dreams contain a lot of love. Love is a wonderful human emotion! Even if love occurs within a dream, it is still love and it can feel wonderful. Since love is such a powerful emotion, it is best to be curious about it. Furthermore, dreams of love are full of grief and sorrow. Of course not every love dream is sorrowful, these type of dreams have more grief and sorrow than 90% of other dream symbols. It can be heart breaking to experience grief and sorrow during a dream. This can remind us of painful events in waking life. Alternatively, the grief and sorrow within a dream can feel so real. Finally, dreams of love tend not to mention places or locations. The dream may or may not take place in varying locations. But dreams of love simply do not mention the location, places, or settings occuring within the dream. This may be for any number of reasons. Perhaps the actions of the dreams are intense. Perhaps the characters take the focus in the dreams. Every dream is unique. These are general patterns observed in an analysis of over 200,000 dreams. This analysis is a tool to help you make sense of your dreams. It is best to look at the differences. See how your dream of love is different than dreams of love in general.

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of dreams have love

How common are love dreams?

12% of dreams have the love symbol within the dream. That's about 1 out of every 9 dreams. Considering all the dream symbols, it is very common.

Identification

How are love dreams identified?

This symbol is identified by words like loving, romantic, beloved, etc. This symbol is part of the summary dream symbols of emotions.

Most related

What is most related to dreams of love?

Love dreams are notable because they have substantially more falling in love, lovers, soul mates, Laos, emaciation, Princess Leia, twin flames, abscesses, Bilbo Baggins, grief and sorrow, verbs than 95% of other dream symbols.

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What symbols least related to dreams of love?

Love dreams are notable because they have substantially less Estonia, Fiji, Gimli, Dobby, pheasants, Cyprus, mudslides, Cameroon, Ethiopia, C-3PO, Bangladesh than 95% of other dream symbols.

Deep dive into love dreams

Get an overview of characters, emotions, places, events, dream events, and senses in love dreams.

Who is in dreams of love?

Who is in dreams of love?

Love dreams are more related to peers, much more related to family, and much more related to romantic partners than dreams in general. They are less related to animals, less related to insects, and less related to unnamed people.

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What are the emotions in dreams of love?

What are the emotions in dreams of love?

Dreams of love are much more related to happiness, much more related to sadness, and much more related to grief and sorrow than dreams in general. They are less related to fear.

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Where do dreams of love take place?

Where do dreams of love take place?

Dreams of love are less related to home, less related to human-made places, and less related to transportation.

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What happens in dreams of love?

What happens in dreams of love?

Love dreams are more related to friendly acts and much more related to sex than dreams in general. They are less related to aggressive acts, less related to disasters, and less related to eating and drinking.

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How do dreams of love related to the type of dream it is?

How do dreams of love related to the type of dream it is?

Love dreams are more related to vivid dreams, much more related to good dreams, and much more related to sad dreams than dreams in general. They are less related to nightmares, less related to sleep paralysis, and less related to weird dreams.

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How do dreams of love related the senses?

How do dreams of love related the senses?

Love dreams are much more related to taste than dreams in general. They are less related to hearing, less related to smelling, and less related to vision.

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How can you make sense of love in dreams?

Love dreams are very common. Among other things love dreams are very emotional, sexual, about love, sorrowful, lack places or locations, family oriented, focused on taste, great dreams, and full of hate. Do you think this is true for your dream of love? How might your dream of love be different?

All dreams have meaning

All dreams have meaning

You can gain insight from thinking about any dream, no matter how strange. Only you, as the dreamer, have final say on what your dream may or may not mean. Each dream is unique.

Look for the differences

Look for the differences

The DreamWell dictionary provides information on how each dream symbol appears in dreams in general. Finding how experience love in dreams can be a key to understanding its meaning.

Return to the feelings

Return to the feelings

Our emotions in dreams can help us understand its meaning. Pay attention to how you felt in the dream. Pay attention to how you feel about love in dreams. See how you feel about love now, in your waking life.

An interpretation of love dreams

An interpretation of love dreams

This interpretation is from ""The Dream Interpretation Dictionary: Symbols, Signs, and Meanings" and is provided by J.M. DeBord aka "RadOwl". He is the author of several acclaimed books about dreaming, the host of The Dreams That Shape Us podcast, and is a moderator of r/Dreams, one of the largest dream sharing communities on the internet. Love is a powerful emotion, and when dreamed about, it can compel a person to pick up a dream book like this one to figure out the meaning. Falling in love is the most common variation of the theme, though dreams will address every sense of the word. Dreams about falling in love are common when a person is actually falling in love. It’s simply an expression of the emotion. But even if the person you fall in love with in a dream is someone you know and love, the dream could still use the image of the person to symbolize something else, such as falling in love with a subject, idea, or creative project, among other things. Falling in love with someone in a dream doesn’t necessarily mean that love is in the stars for the two of you. It’s more likely to be symbolism for something entirely personal. For example, a young woman dreams about falling in love with a classmate who’s in her favorite class. The classmate symbolizes the class, not the person. Sure, he’s physically attractive, which is all she really knows about him. But the dream uses him as a character in the story only because he’s someone she finds attractive, and what she’s really attracted to is the class. The symbolism is especially obvious if you search your feelings and don’t register feelings of love for the person in the dream. In rare cases dreams are known to bring together people who are destined for each other, truly the man or woman of your dreams, and those dreams are known to show you the potential for deep love with someone you barely know, or haven’t met yet—a person you will meet in the future, strange as that might sound to people who don’t know it’s possible. The feeling of love for someone in a dream may symbolize something you love to do or somewhere you love to be. For example, you have a favorite hangout place, such as a pub, then dream about being in that setting and falling in love with someone. What you really love is going to the pub! For people who are in a relationship that involves, or could involve, feelings of love, dreaming about love can be a way of revealing how they feel or what they want from the relationship. A common variation of the theme is the “loves me, loves me not” dream that explores your feelings for someone and whether or not the person is a good long-term prospect. On the other end of the spectrum, dreams can tell you when you no longer love someone. If it’s hard to admit, your dreams are likely to amplify the loss of love and get your attention that way. Obsessive love can be symbolized in dreams as something about love that’s out of proportion, such as if you dream about the person you love as fifty feet tall; it means the person has too big a place in your life or mind, or you’re taking things too far. You can develop feelings of love for yourself and have it show up in your dreams as loving a character—often love at first sight—and it’s a great sign because it shows you can love yourself, something about yourself, or something about your life. It shows a soul-level connection inside you. See: Souls Throughout your life you go through a process of uniting the conscious side of your mind with the unconscious side, referred to as “marriage of the soul.” And what better way of promoting that goal than by portraying the unconscious as a dream character, and you fall in love with it because you recognize yourself in it. The unconscious mind can present itself to you in dreams as a perfect mate. The purpose is to motivate you to pursue the process of personal development that makes you more conscious and personally integrated. Carl Jung called it the “individuation process.” The figure that takes form in dreams as a man’s perfect mate is called anima, and for women it’s animus. See: Animas, Animuses Being loved by someone in a dream can motivate you. It can make you believe in yourself. It can reflect the fact that someone holds you in high esteem and otherwise makes you feel loved and appreciated. For people who don’t have anyone to love or love them, dreams can provide a valuable connection to the love that comes from within, and that anyone can have. You don’t have to deserve it, but you might have to earn it in your dreams with your anima or animus by dedicating yourself to living the best life you can. See: Compensation See also: Animas, Animuses, Boyfriends, Brides, Compensation, Emotions, Fires, Girlfriends, Grooms, Hearts, Weddings, Red, Wives

Examples of dreams of love

Reading dreams is one of the best ways to understand dream symbols. Even though the DreamWell Dream Dictionary is based upon data, it is grounded in the experience of reading thousands upon thousands of dreams. We invite you to read examples of love dreams for yourself. These dreams are actual dreams people have had. As result, they may contain racist, sexist, violent, or otherwise offense language and imagery. This can be true even for love dreams. Read at your own risk.

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