What are wife dreams about?

Well I had a dream last night. Really short but felt so real.
I was laying on a bed naked and there was another guy standing on the other side of the room and he was pulling his cock, it looked huge. I asked him, actually told him to ‘Come here’. He did and climbed on the bed and kneeled straddling my right thigh. Our cocks were close. He was smooth all over and his cock was so hard, as was mine. I reached out and cupped his balls and gently squeezed them and then felt his cock and stroked it.

Then I woke up. I laid there, my cock hard, my wife asleep beside me. I could literally remember how it felt in my hand and I loved it.

Now that is on replay in my head.

Long story short my wife and I decided to explore polyamory. Collectively dated the same woman for a short time before the dynamic shifted (the gf and I had a much stronger bond) the night the gf revealed this to us she mentioned a dream she had:

She was in an underwater city where both androgynous men and women lived.
Her and another woman left the city and ended up on the land but the land dwelling people ended up capturing and killing the woman in front of her.

Originally I assumed it had to do with the gf and her lack of connection with my wife but fast forward a fee months on my return to the area I had a gut awful feeling this weekend my marriage was going to be destroyed (one thing lead to another) and by an ironic turn of events ended up in my wife saying she was done.

I had a dream last night about a soldier’s funeral. It was very sad and I remember looking for a name on anything so I knew who it was that I was mourning. Unfortunately I couldn’t find a name, but it was a young man in the casket. He was Hispanic and was surrounded by blue flowers, wearing a dark green suit. There was also a woman in a blue dress kneeling and sobbing. I’m not sure if she was his mother, sister, wife, girlfriend??? But she was clearly distraught.
I woke up in tears and I just had to write it all down and put it out there.

Back in September I was hooking up with a guy for a month before he just randomly blocked my number. During this month we were hooking up while he was in the middle of a divorce and he told me he really liked me and had feelings for me and i told him the same thing because we weren’t just hooking up we were also seeing where it goes. Things ended after he blocked my number and went back to his wife so he could be present in his child’s life because his wife was using his kid against him. He was also miserable in his marriage but anyway recently I had dream about him. It went like this

I was at work sitting on my stool i always sit on and I was talking to a coworker but I had my eyes closed and I hear a customer come in. I open my eyes to greet them and then I see the dude I was hooking up with on the other side of the counter and he looked so depressed. I stood up fast because I was shocked and confused and I stared at him for a minute or two then the dream went black and ended.

I’m so confused but the dream because I haven’t spoken to the guy since October 14th and I haven’t seen him since except one day at Walmart while he was out with his kid and wife a few days before Christmas and he looked miserable but I went the other way before he could see me because well that would be awkward then then last week I saw his truck at his moms daycare on my way to work or morning because I practically live next door to his moms daycare and that was it. What could this dream mean?

Back story:

She (32F) been in the hospital over two weeks now and in not the best shape. A brain bleed caused a Hemorrhagic Stroke and she cannot talk, nor has feeling on the left side of her body. This has been a terribly hard situation to deal with as we have two young children and no idea where this will end up with her condition.

On to the dream. We were home, and she had some bandaging on her head but was completely normal. It felt so real, but I found myself questioning the situation in my head, while dreaming. I asked her questions about the hospital and she spoke to me like everything was fine. I realized I had to be dreaming because just yesterday I was sitting in the hospital at her bedside. I hugged her and started cry, about the same time I woke up about to break out in tears.

The dream made me so happy but also caused a lot of fear for the future. I usually do not read into these things and I rarely have a lucid dream.

Anyone that might have some feedback, good or bad, I'd love to hear it.